happy birthday nur izzati

she is 18th by today. Happy Birthday to you my dear girl.

just came back from dinner at the TGI Friday at the Pavilion as demanded by the birthday girl. She was a bit late home from college, not because of the distant but the traffic jam in KL.

the dinner was simple but the mood was there as everyone were happy for her. My only wish is seeing her grown up and be successful in her life.

toksah dok "tebeng" (2)

food for taught

coretan sblm ini lahir apabila melihat permasalahan yang terdapat disekeliling. Baik dikalangan teman2 rapat mau pun keluarga terdekat.

harapan yang tersirat supaya anak2 akan membuat pilihan mereka hanya setelah memikirkan perkara ini semasak2nya. Hakikat bahawa janji-janji manis yang diberi dan ditaburkan bukanlah kayu pengukur sebenar di dalam menjamin kebahagian sebuah rumahtangga.

sedih apabila melihat keretakan yang berlaku di dalam rumahtangga keluarga terdekat. Cuma kata-kata nasihat sahaja yang mampu diberikan. Kalau berlebih nanti, bila mereka dah kembali normal kehidupannya, kita pula yang dikatakan menjadi racun atau punca kepada masalah.

pilihan pasangan dibuat oleh mereka sendiri walau pun setengahnya terdapat tentangan dari keluarga. Cinta dan kasih serta sayang tak boleh dijual beli dan tak akan ada faktor yang boleh menghalang.

tidak akan ada parents yang sanggup melihat rumahtangga anak2 mereka runtuh dan tak mungkin juga akan ada parents yang menjadi penyebab runtuhnya sebuah masjid itu.

melihat komen sorg anak sdrku dlm catatan terdahulu, peganganku turut menjadi prinsipnya. Aku yakin, semua parents juga bersetuju dengan pandangan ini.

so, toksah dok 'tebeng' lah.......

toksah dok "tebeng" (cuba)

kudapan sebelum tidur.....

i was talking to my wife a few nights ago and among the topics that we were discussing was fasal kriteria yg diperlukan kalau nak jadi part of our family (jauh lagi nak bermenantu pun.........cuma sembang2 je).

there is no trial period for a married life. Ones has to really consider before making a decision to end his or her bachelor days. Many factors have to be given a deep thought for a wise decision to be made.

i told my wife, dalam perkahwinan tiada istilah 'percubaan' atau trial. Bukan nak melawan takdir tatapi sebenarnya kita yang merancang dan sesuatu itu akan terjadi, dengan izin Allah.

ramai parents yang bila anak2 mereka mengalami krisis rumahtangga akan mengeluarkan ucapan seperti berikut, esp sblh perempuan.....'kalau dulu anak mak dan ayah diambil dengan baik, mak dan ayah nak dia dihantar pulang dengan baik juga'.

wife did asked me whether i'm going to say the same? I replied NO. There is no such words from me as far as I'm concerned. It caught her by surprised a little while.

i xplain to her perkahwinan bukan perkara main-main. To me I will tell whoever yang bakal jadi menantu "kalau tak boleh jaga anak2 saya bagaimana saya menjaga mereka dan kalau rasa akan ada bibit kegagalan dalam rumahtangga yang nak dibina, toksah dok "TEBENG" nak kahwin atau jadi menantu saya (org sebelah Gerik fahamlah apa dia 'tebeng' ni.........)

"tebeng" bermaksud toksah dok cuba dari mulalah (tak gitu?). Isteriku terkejut dgn penjelasan tadi. I told her, we have given the best to our girls and their lives were full of loved from us and I could'nt terima bila hati dan perasaan anak2 kesayangan ini dilukai atau dipermainkan. And that's ME!!

of course bakal menantu have to passed certain tests which have been agreed upon by my wife and I. Bukan apa, risau tengok sekarang ni, perkahwinan itu dah dianggap macam tak ada rezeki atau jodoh bila dah tak serasi. Perlu cermin diri dulu sblm buat keputusan, jgn nak salahkan jodoh atau takdir shj.

bukan nak angkat diri konon kami pandai jaga anak2 tapi I always believed that all my daughters deserved the best as their parents have given the best to them.

so, toksah dok "tebeng".............

happy birthday my dearest wife

she was born 45 yrs ago on this date 17th April and 2day is her 45th b'day. She is my lovely wife, cikgu Normah or better known to me as Yang.

no special bday gift from me this year and i think you understood it why. The most important of all, we are living in a happy family of ours with our 3 girls around.

sgt bertuah to have you around. since 1986 as my companion. Thanks you for everything

scholarships

it has been a busy and full of excitement and tension week for adik and myself. She has been attending interviews for her scholarship applications.

PNB and Khazanah 1st interviews were on Monday and Tuesday. The candidates were tested on their IQ for PNB and an oral interview for Khazanah. There will be a second round for PNB if she pass the 1st round. As for Khazanah there will be 3 more round of interviews which will consists of IQ test and also interview with the board of directors and lastly the chairman himself.

my only hoped if seeing my girl getting the scholarship and if possible a good scholarship. It will helps me a lot in order to prepare her for her financing to do her A Level at KYUEM and later her undergraduate at one of the top varsity in UK.

it shocked me when she was not even called up for the Petronas interview. Was her result not good enough? MARA is schedule this coming Monday.

so, all the best to you. Wishing you all the best